Here are some pictures of Brant and me at the Farmer's Market this past Sunday. I realized I don't have a lot of candid, clothed preggo pictures of me, since I'm usually the one holding the camera...and I didn't want to regret not having some. So in these final weeks I'll be doing my best to get other, less posed preggo shots, so baby can see them in the future.
And, of course, here's one of Brant being both annoyed and patient with me, that I'm taking pictures....
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Now, here's the real topic of this post: Stretch Marks.
And, though I'd rather not have them, I'm still in some sort of awe.
Here's a close up (the stretch marks are on the bottom of my belly):
They're lighter than my other ones from my adolescence~I really think it's because I've been applying belly oils and lotions.
And you know, I told myself if I got stretch marks, I wouldn't stop posting bare bellied pictures and such; I don't want to promote shame of something so natural.
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And finally (though I know this post is a conglomeration of A LOT of things...)here are some 32 week belly shots. Maddy even makes a cameo in these!
This one is actually my favorite:
And the long view too, with Maddy looking up:
And that's about it for this week's post!
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE you for posting pics and writing about this. Gives me courage when I start to develop those marks. I scour my belly daily to see if they have started and sigh with relief when I don't see one. I know they're coming and I'm not sure how I'll cope when they do but it's inspiring to see you deal with it so beautifully! Also, love your outie button. That has started happening and it's crazy!
ReplyDeleteI know, Vanessa. I didn't get any until 7.5 months, and was all, "this is awesome," and then they came. 1, to start with. Then slowly more. And it was...not fun. But we have courage!! We know this isn't anything about us, and it gives us an opportunity to let go of that part of ourselves, at least in this moment, that tries to be perfect.
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You're so beautiful, and I love that you're sharing with us. I sometimes call my stretch marks my "battle scars", but only in the sense that people with said scars are proud of them in the sense that I'm proud of mine. Yes, they make my belly look like a brain (Evelynne's really done a number on me!), but they'll fade in time, and they're just a reminder that I actually carried a living, growing, human inside of me. Amazing!
ReplyDeleteI love you, you look fabulous, and Brant looks terrific. =)